While I was in high school, one of the teachers from the business department taught us skills for pursuing a job. While helping us practice for interviews, she emphasized that the interview was not over until you wrote a thank-you note.

At first, I thought of the thank-you note as nothing more than an appendix to the interview. It was one more opportunity to make myself look good. As we practiced interviewing, I discovered that the intention to write a thank-you note changed the way I approached the interview. While answering questions and learning more about the potential job, I made mental notes of items to include in my thank-you note. The intention to express thanks made me more aware of the interviewer's concerns. I don't know if the thank-you notes changed or enhanced my image in the eyes of the interviewers, but I know it changed my awareness of the interview process.

We may realize that prayer is an important part of thankfulness, but do we realize how closely prayer and gratitude are tied together? We might be inclined to believe that prayer is the appendix to a good day or a successful endeavor—it is good to include, but it doesn't add much to the substance of what has happened. But prayer does more than punctuate God's blessings. It helps us become more aware of God's goodness and contributes to a growing sense of gratitude toward God.