"We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure. . . . But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God. . . ." - 2 Corinthians 1:8-9
I'm guessing that most of us have never been shipwrecked, or been whipped within an inch of our lives, or had a group of assassins after our blood, or been lowered over a city wall in a basket at night to escape our pursuers. But all of those things happened to Paul, and he was frequently under unbearable pressure.
This is not to say we don't live with stress, however. Stress has a way of bending us out of shape, making us act in uncharacteristic ways, and making us more vulnerable than usual to temptation. We find ourselves snapping at people, losing patience when we need it most, or becoming depressed. Ultimately stress can cause us to take our eyes off God and focus only on our problems.
When we're under pressure, it's important to realize that if we are not careful, it could have an adverse effect on our relationships with others. Most importantly, we should use those situations to learn to rely on God. How do we do that?
Pray, "Lord, help me. I need your wisdom and strength!" Continue to trust God when things are beyond your control. Believe that God can bring victory out of seeming defeat. Continue to obey God's revealed will, his clearly expressed commands. And be courageous.